Changes are good. I love them when they work to make something better. I look forward to the ones that fix something that has been driving me crazy. The ones I dread make something good no longer good anymore. They suck the joy out of change.
Change is a constant - or so the saying goes. And to a degree it is. Something is always moving us in some direction. Whether we love it or hate it is up to us. I choose to love many of the changes in my life. There are those that just make me crazy - like social media sites changing something nice to something complicated or exclusive - but I weather those as part of life too.
This past year I changed a lot . I got divorced and learned how much it takes to do that (on so many levels). I changed how many stores I am in because it was time to just do that. I had my daughter move back in to my home. 16 year old daughters change your world a lot! I welcome that change! I moved into the world of iPhones instead of sticking with a simple phone, discovering the things I could get done away from my computer. In other parts of my life, I changed in ways I cannot put into words accurately.
Now that the divorce has been final for awhile, I finally changed my name and took back my maiden name. It will be interesting to see how many times I sign Luedtke instead of Brown. I spent almost 13 years as Julie Luedtke. First though I have to get that last name changed on so many things. (Probably why some people choose not to do so.) It is a lot!!! I need a list to make sure I get them all.
So far, I have changed it here, Google+, Twitter, Pinterest and Facebook. There is the bank, insurance, vehicle registration, drivers license, and I am sure I have forgotten something. Changing my name in all these places drives me a little crazy because each one is different in process. (Did you know if you are divorced you might need a CERTIFIED copy of your divorce decree? I did not. Social Security name change #1 was a fail because I did not.).
It also makes me ask if I really want it. I always come back to yes. I used to think I would always be Julie Luedtke, even if divorced because a name does not define me. But things change and it happened that a change of name was in order. So tonight as I blog, I also find all the places my name is and hope to get them changed.
Why did I change it back? Simply put, I needed to reclaim who I was. While a name does not define me, there is a lot that gets attached to a name. Some things you want, some not so much. In my case, I needed a fresh start. So Julie Brown it is again. (Downtown Julie Brown to some artist friends...) How a word can kick start a fresh start I may never understand but I totally appreciate that it does.
I am looking at trying some new things in my business too. Change is not isolated in my life. (I know people who do one change at a time. I just jump in all at once and wonder how I thought that would work from time to time.). I will be checking out a new place to sell my work locally very soon and am excited about it. Let's hope I introduce myself with the correct name. ;)
As you experience changes in your life, I hope you will always look for the good in them and find ways to weather the less than lovely changes. Changes bring so many good things when you look for them.